The only reason why i am telling you all these because i want you to understand your own differences. Most of the time, we compare ourselves with others. Comparing ourselves with others may look fine for most people. I would also not say that it is a wrong thing. My wish is to make you understand your own differences. When you would understand your own differences, you would start thinking about your life in your own way which is extremely important for a successful living.
People always keep comparing themselves with others and try to understand why they are not like others who are successful. But while comparing yourself with others, most of the time, people forget themselves. People forget their own identity. In life, if you want to live a better life, you must learn to live in your own way, according to me. Copying others may sometimes be helpful But always it doesn’t bring any big difference. So start living your life in your own ways. May be, sometimes you think of comparing yourself and your way of living your life with others. But it will always not give you great results.
It is true that life is very confusing. Life makes us confused about its many different aspects and we become confused which way to choose to live life. According to me, you must not be confused to take decisions about how to live your life. You are the only decision maker for your own life. Because ultimately you have to live your life. Others will never come to live your life. They will only suggest you how to live depending on their way of thinking. So if their mentality is different from you, their decisions may not be suitable for you. So you have to take decisions yourself. Realize your own differences and understand the most suitable way to live your life. However, sometimes comparing yourself with others helps. But it is never a good choice always. Because you are different, extremely different from others.