How to increase your self confidence?Increasing your confidence level is just so much important for your life. I hope you already understand that. There were surely times in your life, you felt yourself not confident enough to fight with the problems. You might have tried a lot to increase your self confidence so that you don’t fail again and again.
But you were failing again and again to increase your self confidence enough to fight the problems in your life. Did it happen to you? If so, you should read the entire article and have a good understanding on how to increase your confidence level.
If you never faced such a problem of non being confident enough, i would say you are confident. So still you need to have a good understanding on what confidence is all about. Read How to Make Your Life More Beautiful?
You already know what is confidence. I am here to help you take it in a different way that will ultimately help you in your life. Just think about it by your heart. It is not just the belief you have on yourself, confidence is also something that can make you happy in every bit of your life.
Confidence is a belief on your ability. Confidence is a belief on your excellence. It is a strong belief on your uniqueness. Confidence is a great understanding of what you can actually do in your life. Confidence makes you powerful enough to handle almost any problem of your life.
Confidence is a clear understanding of the difference between what you can do and what you can not do. Confidence is the most important companion of your life. Confidence never leaves you no matter if you are so much confident or not. It stays in your mind.
You have to make it possible for yourself to recognize your level of confidence and then try to increase it. Increasing confidence is not so hard if you take it seriously. If you don’t take it seriously, it will not be possible for you to increase your self confidence to such a level that you will start feeling you are really very confident.
If you think carefully about what i said before regarding confidence, you would understand how much it is important for your life. The reason i said all those things is to make you realize the importance of confidence in your life. Because unless you feel its important, you will not try seriously. Because only talking about how to increase your self confidence, without realizing its importance will never actually get the things done. So feel its importance at first.
Top Three Reasons of Loosing Confidence.
If you really want to increase your self confidence, at first you should know what are reasons you don’t become confident. Knowing the reasons of not being confident will ultimately help you increase your confidence level. There are three inevitable reasons, you can never be confident……..
If you fail in doing a work again and again, you will loose confidence. This is what makes people very sad when they start feeling they can not do anything. It creates a mindset that makes them very weak. They can not decide properly what they should do to get rid of the problems.
It happens because of continuous failure. So how would you handle such situations of your life? Just don’t let your failure create an opposite mindset that makes you weak. Remember, ‘Failure is the Pillar of Success’. The more you will fail, the more you will learn something new.
If you fail hundred times, it’s not that you failed many times, but it means you learned hundred reasons of being failed. So next time, you will surely not fail. If you fail again, you will learn another good reason of being failed. Don’t let the reason become a reason of making you fail next time.
If you continuously try, you will be successful. When you will be successful, you will have a lot more experience than anyone else. You can teach someone how to avoid the hundred reasons of being failed. If you can make it possible, your confidence level will highly get increased.
This is how you can make your failure the pillar of your success. If you have an experience like this of being failed again and again and then getting success, it is almost impossible to loose this confidence ever. If you gained your confidence in this way, you will not fail in almost any work of your life. So your confidence will hardly be reduced. So increase your self confidence level in such a way that it stays with you for all your life. But i am not saying of being failed again and again. Read The First Step to Increase Your Confidence Level.
The next reason of loosing confidence is criticism. If your work is getting criticized badly, you tend to loose confidence. This kind of reason of loosing confidence is very common. You should try to learn from criticism. True criticism can help you find out your mistakes.
So getting irate on criticism is never a good solution to your problems. It is never going to help you to increase your self confidence. Utilize criticism to find out your mistakes and rectify them seriously. Failure is just an impediment. It doesn’t stay long. You need to use it for your success and for increasing your confidence level.
The third reason of loosing confidence is changing your work frequently. If you change your job frequently, if you can’t engage yourself in a work that you can do well, your confidence will ultimately decrease. Always engage yourself in a work you can do well.
If you change your work again and again, you will not be able to have confidence on your ability on a particular work. You may be highly talented. But at first, you need to know yourself properly, then use your talent. Be confident enough to do a work you actually. Choose the work you would like to do.
All of these will help you gain enough confidence to fight any problems of your life. There are many other reasons of loosing confidence, but all of them are related to these three big reasons. If you are able to analyze these reasons, you can understand how many times you have failed to increase your self confidence before, when you could actually increase it by using your talent.
In the beginning of this article, i said that confidence is a strong belief on your ability and knowing what you can actually do. So if you can keep trying to increase your ability, ultimately your confidence will increase. Remember, your ability works just like a strong pillar of your confidence.