Avoiding your partner is not always a good solution to any problem that comes in your relationship. May be, you have doubts on your partner so much that you don’t want to carry on the relationship at all. But usually this type of solutions don’t work properly. It is always suggested to avoid such partners who don’t give you any value and only wants to do what he or she wants. It leads to selfishness.
But when you are in a committed relationship, you should most of the time think about the partner you are connected with. Leaving a committed relationship, your partner or avoiding your partner so much even when you are continuing the relation will never ultimately make you happy.
Most of the time it happens in relationships, that people avoid their partner doing something that they don’t like. When it increases, it leads to breaking the relationship. But breaking or leaving a good relationship without clarifying your doubts is such a great mistake you should never make. Most of the time, it happens that people break their relationships or keep the relation while avoiding their partner being so much doubtful. If you do so in the relationship, you are in, just imagine what you are getting being doubtful.
I am telling you this to make you understand that you may be so much doubtful that you don’t want to continue the relationship or you don’t feel love for your partner now, you should clarify your doubts at first. Then you should make a decision. Read How to Love Someone Unconditionally?
Most of the people leave their relationship without clarifying their doubts. Ultimately, the relationship does not continue so well, or even if it continues it does not have that genuine love between the partners. It makes both of them very unhappy. At last, the relationship becomes stale. You don’t find it suitable for your life any more. These are some of the signs that will definitely come in such a doubtful relationship.
So you will certainly not prefer such a relation. Because you require love from your partner. You want your partner to love you. Your partner may be willing for the same. But you don’t recognize it because of your doubts on your partner. So how to deal with your doubts so that ultimately your relationship does not break and you get that pure love you want from your partner. Read Why Love can Never Hurt You?
Before dealing with your doubts, have the answers of some questions from the bottom of your heart……….
How much do you love your partner?
How much do you believe your partner?
Do you have good understanding with your partner?
How much does your partner share everything to you?
How much importance do you feel your partner gives you?
Did you ever feel that your partner loves you?
Did you ever feel that your partner gives more importance to someone else than you?
Do you think, if you avoid or stop loving your partner, your partner will sad?
If ultimately you see that your partner doesn’t love you, how much will you be able to start a new life, may be with someone else? Read How You Can Quickly and Easily Stop Your Break Up?
Will you really be happy with another partner you are thinking of, after leaving your present relationship? Have the answers of all these questions clear to you. Be truthful to yourself at first. Define your own feelings about your partner. Give importance to your love and learn to respect your partner’s love as well. Now you are ready to ask questions. Have a good discussion with your partner about all these. Disclose everything you have in your mind. Whatever you partner will say is what will ultimately help you make your decision.
Remember your ultimate decision should always be so careful. Leaving a committed relationship should never get the first preference. It is always recommended to ask questions with your partner to clear your doubts. It is never bad. But most people don’t do that, thinking that it will show that they are being very doubtful on their partners. They want to show their love. Ultimately it creates a pressure on their mind. They don’t become happy and also their partners don’t become happy as they start to avoid them.
Ultimately, both of them feel insecure and start looking for love in someone else and the relationship breaks. So never let that happen, may be your relationship is such a great relationship. But for your doubts, it ultimately breaks. So it is always suggested to have very good understanding with your partner. Let your partner feel how much you love. Become truthful and tell your partner everything openly. It will make your partner feel secure with your love. Believe me, your relationship will never end and you will enjoy every bit of your relationship.